Notes from the Post-it Wall | Week of July 9, 2023
When having a conversation around socio-economic-political things, you don’t have to give historical context with every opinion you offer. It’s a conversation, not a lecture. And as a general rule of common decency, when having a conversation, don’t lecture, it makes you sound like an asshole and we won’t want to talk with you anymore.
Why We Can't Have Nice Things Online
Perhaps I’m out of practice or have lost my taste for it like a former drug addict revisiting a high and discovering it isn’t quite what he remembered.
I Believe... [Autonomy is a Singular Goal]
...that Himmel is completely, 100% correct when he states that marriage is a willingness to forgo autonomy. Given my almost relentless desire for autonomy, I should’ve known better…
Hate is a Cold Wind
And I am caught in another crossroads. I DO blend in with this crowd. I LOOK like one of them. I used to BE one of them. In their eyes, I AM one of them.
Notes from the Post-it Wall | Week of July 2, 2023
Good food is like bad relationships: it all eventually turns to shit.
Throwing Cheese at Pink
Concert tickets are almost ridiculously expensive these days. A family size wheel of Brie ain’t cheap either.
A Message of Hope Before We All Die
We’re screwed-ish.
Celebrating America is as Complicated as a Teenager's Birthday
In country years, at 246 years, America is just a teenager.
Walking with a Limp
“Tell me to what you pay attention and I will tell you who you are.” —Jose Ortega y Gasset
I Believe... [In Underwear]
...that life is laundry. It’s a pain in the ass, seems completely pointless but, man, it’s grand to have a pair of clean underwear.
Notes from the Post-it Wall | Week of June 25, 2023
I recently ordered sushi in English off a Hebrew menu while sucking back a German Pilsner. Tell me again why we can’t figure out world peace?
I Believe... [It Ain't Cultural]
...that the excuse for one’s poor behavior “it’s a cultural thing” is its own form of casual racism—being on time, respecting the time of others, and functioning for the benefit of the whole have nothing to do with culture.
See! I Told You! – Donald Trump, Jr Speaks Out About Hunter Biden
Put Biden and his family behind bars and my family and I will celebrate in bars.
The Anti-Tribalist
I was taught growing up to avoid as best I could judging people by the stereotypes at play. This is not the same as being color blind.
I Believe... [Pride is a Costume]
...that a monster truck event at a rural state fair is just a different sort of Pride parade.
[From the Archive] The Principle of The Thing Paints Us All in a Corner
If you ever watched The People's Court, you were assailed with court cases that often were as petty as they come.
Notes from the Post-it Wall | Week of June 11, 2023
I have a closet full of luggage stuffed with grudges. But I’m such a fantastic packer that the grudges don’t weigh me down or hold me up, and there’s always room for more.
Are We All ADHD Or Is It Just The World?
Can we just put RuPaul in charge of everything?
The Inevitable Clash: Finally Accountability or Another Empty Sandwich?
Trump is Lucy Van Pelt. We are all Charlie Brown. We're never kicking that fucking football, kids.
I Believe... [Examining the Self]
...that the unexamined life is not worth living (Socrates). The over-examined life is just a drag.
It’s easy to misconstrue something you hear or read. Do better by doing the harder work. Pay attention, take your time. And trust that the hard work really isn’t that hard.