…that you can inspire someone to change. You can educate someone toward change. You can support someone as they change. You cannot make someone change, and all your efforts to do so, being met with failure, are the cause of your great outrage.

In order for any deviation from what the majority of people in this country consider normal to change course and become a part of a paradigm shift, it must be seen and understand as such first. To be considered normal, one must change that which is the "standard; usual, typical or expected."